|just a cute picture of today: happy first full day of Autumn!|
I had a goal for the month of August. Besides having extra cuddle and love time with my daughter, the main reason I took 16 weeks of maternity leave is to get Helena on a schedule for my return to work. Of course the “normal” maternity leave time is 12 weeks (bless those mom’s who return after 8 or even 6 weeks!), I felt very fortunate when my boss and employer agreed to give me an extended 4 weeks of a “leave of absence” to extent my leave to total of 16 weeks.
From the very beginning I knew that going from 3 months to 4 months I would be able to implement more of a schedule. Wake up at “X” time, feed, nap etc… Not so fast. Here we are nearing the end of September and Helena is on her own schedule. Which is fine. We definitely take cues from Helena, but there are times when I wish her schedule was a little bit more determined. If that even makes sense? Friday and Saturday for example were total crazy days. It’s difficult when I know she is sleepy and tired, but she won’t take a nap. On Friday she was up all day, to finally take a nap at 6:30pm…and she slept for 3 hours! Needless to say she didn’t go to bed until almost midnight! Similar to Saturday, she just wouldn’t take a nap. Granted she did take a short cat nap in the car, or she’ll “sleep” while she's feeding on the boob, but unless I can be productive I don’t classify it has a nap! J
I will say that most days she does have a predictable schedule. Morning nap/afternoon nap. It’s the days when we are out and about that interrupt her schedule the most. So how are we suppose to live life? In addition to this, how do we transition her from napping in her swing to napping in her crib? She’s goes out perfectly fine in her crib when it is her bedtime. But she won’t have anything to do with it for her naptime.
I guess I just feel bad for not being successful at putting her on a schedule during those last 4 weeks of maternity leave. I of course, loved the extra time with my daughter, but I definitely failed at what I set out to do.
Yesterday and today she was a rock star. She definitely adhered to her "schedule" and took her naps at the appropriate times...she even slept in her crib during naptime today! (proud mommy moment even though I wasn't home to witness this great accomplishment.) But it's must more difficult when we want to be out and about.
Any tips on how to get her on a little bit more stricter schedule? Or getting her to sleep in her crib? I would truly appreciate your ideas!